My Girl Friend Tried Anal; I Asked Her Everything
First question: are you slutty?
Are you slutty?
I can have sex with you and not love you. Especially if someone and I meet online, there’s an understanding we want to date, i.e. fuck. But we have to have talked; I need to know about their lives. When someone asks me as a first question, “Wanna fuck?” I block them.
“Slut” is a social stigma. Compared to friends? I guess I am, for a girl. Compared to people online? Average.
Describe it.
He asked, “Have you tried anal?”
I was like, “Never.”
Then he was like, “It’s super common.” He was priming me. He said, “I’ve done it many times, you should try it.” He made it sound like everyone does it. He said how it feels good for both parties, apparently.
I was like, “Not pain meh?”
He was like, “No, if there’s enough lube.” He answered in a “good” way so that I would want to do it.
When the sex started, I didn’t even think about it. Suddenly he was like, “Do you want to try anal? Don’t worry, I’ll eat your ass.” I’ve read in magazines, only do anal with people you trust.
He wasn’t big. That’s partly why I agreed. It probably wouldn’t be that painful.
Eating my ass didn’t feel like much. People probably only do it as a precursor to anal.
It was painful for the first second. After a while it was not that bad. Then it felt uncomfortable. It felt like I was going to take a big shit.
“You won’t, trust me.”
After a minute or two, it got dry, so it got more painful. Then we went back to normal sex. I was like, thank God.
It didn’t feel good sexually, like there was a g-spot. I felt like I was providing a service. *laughs*
He didn’t enjoy it more than vaginal sex.
I was concentrating on the “shitting” feeling. And it slowly drying up.
Thoughts and advice?
I wouldn’t do it with anyone inexperienced. I didn’t even do it with my boyfriend after that, who asked but was inexperienced.
It’s better to have a good anal experience than a “loving” one.
They have to request. I wouldn’t “present” my ass to them.
Guys have to eat your ass for at least five minutes. It needs to be loosened, relaxed.
If you just shat one hour before, don’t do it.
For me, try everything once. It will hurt, but you might like it.
