Are Singaporean Men Sexy?
a Bulgarian girl answers
Note: This is one person’s perspective. Preferences are personal; they should be taken superficially. Responses may be absolute, but with an understanding of spectrums. Do not use this as a reference for reality; it isn’t.
Bulgaria to Singapore?
When I was 10, my dad got a job here. We didn’t have malls, escalators, McDonalds. Bulgaria’s more expressive. Singapore’s safer.
Do you feel “white?”
People find me exotic, want to be my friend. I’m adaptable. I don’t stick to one clique. Now, I sound Singaporean. I don’t see myself differently.
When I tell guys I’ve been in Singapore for 12 years, go to a local school, they’re shocked. They expect me to have a typical white accent, drink Starbucks, wear Uggs?
The stereotype: white girls are more “open,” Singaporean girls are more reserved.
Dating?
My first boyfriend hit on me at Starbucks. We dated 1.5 years. He had an image; I wasn’t his image. His new girlfriend is white.
I never put a guy over my friends.
My second boyfriend asked for my number after busking. He played me.
How to Tinder?
Eyebrows. Nice features: eyes, smile. There’re good-looking Indians on Tinder. Currently I like Indians.
There’re prettier girls than hot guys. Guys have greater choice. I’ve seen my friends’ Tinder. Competition is tough!
I hate guys who say “Hey.”
My bio says: “my mom’s giving me a deadline to find the love of my life or she’s shipping me back home, hmu if you can help.” Singaporean guys sometimes don’t know how to start conversations. If they can keep up, we’ll meet.
I’ll usually reply to a pickup line, “How many girls did you copy and paste this to?” If they have a funny response for that, we can hang. If they’re like “hahaha,” next.
They need to communicate like a proper person. Grammar, English.
Let’s get a drink, something I can get out of. Can he speak? Is he funny? Will I enjoy 2 hours with him?
Singaporeans are…
Sometimes unaware of surroundings. A bus driver has to yell at people on their phones to move in for others.
Best thing about Singaporean men.
[She thought about it for a while, asked me to suggest something, decided to Whatsapp me afterwards a proper answer.]
Stable, dependable, loyal, committed, forward-looking. More involved in planning for the future after dating for a while.
Worst thing about Singaporean men.
Sheltered, uncreative, dependent on family, unmotivated to find goals. End up following typical lifestyle choices, not ballsy to try new things or put themselves out there. Cautious when dating.
Singaporean men vs white men.
Singaporean guys are not as confident. At a club, they’ll observe me for a while, wait for me to go outside to smoke.
It’s nice they pretend they care.
White guys are more aggressive. They’ll just grab me and dance with me.
How to one-night-stand?
Don’t try too hard. If I can tell, it’s a turn-off. Be natural. A bit of aggression, but with respect. Don’t ask, “Should we have sex now?”
Small to big: Chinese, Malay, Indian, White (Eurasian)?
Size does matter.
Small dicks can be okay, but they will never be good sex.
Generally: Chinese, Malay, White, Indian. There are exceptions.
Experiences.
White guys are more adventurous. Singaporeans are more traditional. [After much hesitation.] Malay, Indian, Chinese, White. Chinese guys are more active. Indian guys are sometimes surprised I swipe right on them. There are exceptions.
By world standards, are Singaporean men hot?
Generally, no. Probably more in Korea, Japan.
